I know Blossy..
I look at my own kid sometimes and think how blessed I am to have her, just the fleeting thought of losing her to cancer or anything else, brings tears to my eyes..
I know it's hard to figure out what lesson there is to be learnt from something so so unfair, but maybe the lesson is just the beauty of their presence at all...

I have lost a step sister to illness, when she was quite young.. and I have such fond memories of her when we were growing up.. she was always happy and tried so hard to be positive, and THAT is what I take from it..that it is possible to be grateful for what you have, when faced with what you may NOT have soon.

"Come to Heaven
Silva Halo"